Soften, My Love.

February 13, 2017

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Hellllloooooooo (said is Mrs.Doutfire voice).

I’m not pregnant. Just bloated, relaxed, at soft stomach at the end of the day.

Instagram (and the world) is really good at allowing you to believe that super models and “fitness celebrities” walk around all day with abs and being lean. 

Girl, no.

This is real. 

Isn’t it annoying? To suck in all day and literally have an indent on your stomach from where you were “keeping it in” all day?

What in the fresh hell? This is not normal. 

This is your PSA that it’s okay to relax. 

I’m not sure who allowed us to believe that we must only wear the highest jeans to hold us in, and suck it all in all day long to please people. I mean who are we even pleasing anyway?


Soften yourself, babe.

When we begin to soften, we let go of societies perception of beauty and allow ourselves to sit in OUR own beauty. 

It’s okay to relax.

Try it.

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